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The 3rd Sunday in Lent
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Text: John 4:5-42
February 27, 2005
In the Name of him who loves us, our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Grace, mercy, and peace be with you. Amen.
How many of us have ever gone through times in our lives when
we have been utterly overcome with guilt, discouragement, or
depression? Perhaps it was when we may have suffered the breakup of
a relationship – or the loss of a job – or have experienced a
terrible tragedy or loss – or have experienced extreme financial
distress – or when we have said or done something to someone that we
desperately wish we could take back – or when someone has hurt us in
a way that pierces to the very depths of our souls. And I can go on
and on. All of us, I am sure, have gone through some times like
these in our lives. Perhaps some of us might be experiencing some
of these times even now.
I believe that this is what it was like for the Samaritan woman
in today’s gospel text. As we heard: “Jesus came to a Samaritan
city called Sychar, near the plot of ground that Jacob had given to
his son Joseph. Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired out by his
journey, was sitting by the well. It was about noon.” And it
was during that time – during the middle and hottest part of the day
– that the Samaritan woman came to draw water from the well.
It was obvious to Jesus, as it would be to any casual observer, that
something was very wrong. In the culture of that day, the women of
a village usually would wait until it was near evening – when it was
cooler – before going to the well to fill their water jars. Not
only that, that was the time for social gathering – for them to
exchange the latest news and to just laugh and talk with each
other.
But not this particular woman. She came to the well during the
wrong time of the day, and she came alone. Our gospel text does not
describe her body language, but I can well imagine what it was like:
stooped shoulders, an expression of hurt, grief, possibly
bitterness, and certainly hopelessness in her eyes.
What would we have done when this woman came to the well? Most
of us probably would have ignored her. We would have pretended to
be thinking of or looking at something else while she was drawing
the water – anything to avoid getting into a conversation with her.
But not Jesus – he could see that she was hurting – and so he
began a conversation with her by making a simple request; “Give
me a drink.” And from then on, that conversation began to change
the woman’s life. Starting with the concepts of physical thirst and
physical water, Jesus soon turned the conversation to deal with the
spiritual thirst of her soul and her need for the “living” water of
God’s love.
It is at this point, however, that most people begin to
throw up defenses. A saying that I have heard is that people often
say that they want to “find” God, but they do NOT want to be “found
out” by God! When talking about “religion”, people usually want to
keep the discussion on a theoretical and academic level. They do
not want any religious discussion to become too “personal”.
This is what it was like
for the Samaritan woman at first. She seemed to want to talk about
anything except what was really bothering her. But when she finally
asked Jesus to give her “living” water so that she would never again
be thirsty, he got to the real heart of the issue by saying to her:
“Go, call your husband, and come back.” And she answered,
“I have no husband.” And Jesus said,
“You are right in saying, ‘I have
no husband’; for you have had five husbands, and the one you have
now is not your husband. What you have said is true.”
This was the turning point of the entire conversation. This
woman had been “found out” by Jesus. Her deepest and most painful
“secret” had been exposed. But instead of experiencing
condemnation, she instead felt an overwhelming sense of love and
compassion from this man. And somehow, through Jesus, she also
experienced GOD’S love and compassion as well. She began to
experience the incredible joy and freedom that came from knowing
that she did not have to hide her “secrets” anymore. For the first
time in her life, she knew that she could be completely open and
honest with herself, with others, and even with God – and yet still
know that she was a person who was deeply loved. When she finally
was not trying to “hide” anymore, that is when she began to receive
Jesus’ “living water” to satisfy the thirst of her soul!
Now she could tell others,
with joy and wonder;
“Come and see a man who told me everything I have ever done!” “Come
and see a man who knows me inside and out and yet still considers me
to be a person of great value!” “Come and see! Come and see!”
Our gospel tells us that many people from the city then went
out to see Jesus. They came because of the woman’s testimony about
what he had said and done for her. They, too, were thirsting for
Jesus’ “living water”. As a group – as Samaritans – they knew the
pain of being rejected and discriminated against by the Jews (as our
gospel text stated – “Jews do not share things in common with
Samaritans” (Jn. 4:9b)). And as individuals, each of them, just
like the woman, also had their own “secret” hurts and needs as
well.
The people invited Jesus to stay with them, and he stayed
there two days. And after getting to know him, they said to the
woman, “It is no longer because of what you said that we believe,
for we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this is truly the
Savior of the world.” In other words, they found out for
themselves that they could be absolutely open and honest with Jesus
as to who and what they were – even about their shortcomings and
failures – and still experience the joy and wonder of God’s love
through him. Through Jesus, the thirst of their souls was
completely satisfied.
What about us here today? I think that one of the main
things that keep us from fully experiencing the “living water” of
Jesus is refusing to admit our NEED. We all have “skeletons” that
we want to keep hidden from others, and even from ourselves. It
might be something like a troubled or abusive relationship, divorce,
bankruptcy, drug or alcohol addiction, a crime that we have
committed. It might be something less “dramatic” such as
experiencing neglect or discrimination due to race, gender, and
whatever. But each and everyone of us here, I know, have certain
issues in the past or present that cause us great shame and great
pain. Things that we don’t want others to know about. Things that
we don’t want to admit to ourselves. And, yes, things that we don’t
even want to admit to God!
Spiritual healing, however, only begins when we stop trying
to keep all of our sins, failures, and shortcomings “secret”. This
does not mean that we have to proclaim them to everyone from the
house tops, but it does mean losing our fear of being “found out”.
When the worst about us is known, then we are finally free from
having to try to keep it hidden. And then we can truly know that if
others love us, it is REAL – because they love us for who and what
we really are, warts and all! And yes, we can also experience GOD’S
love for us in the same way! When others, and God, know
everything about us, and still love us, we can know that we are
indeed of great value!
That is the “living water” which the Samaritan woman at the
well, and later many other Samaritans in the city of Sychar,
experienced in today’s gospel reading. When their shameful and
painful “secrets” were “found out” by Jesus, they received his love,
compassion, and forgiveness. In their souls they each received a
spring of “living water” gushing up to eternal life – a new and
wonderful life with God!
So may it be for us today as well, in Jesus’ name! Amen!
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George R.
Karres,
Pella
Lutheran Church
418 W. Main
Street
Sidney, MT
59270
gkarres@midrivers.com
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